Decoding the Classics: The Meaning Behind Roses
For milestones or quiet messages of comfort, the right rose speaks volumes. This guide decodes the nuanced language of flowers. From color to the number of stems, so you can translate your feelings into a beautiful story told with intention.

By Emily Limas, Founder & Lead Designer at Grace & Blooms
A Note from Emily
When I was on stage as a young actress, the tradition after every performance was simple: someone would hand you a rose. It wasn’t about the flower itself, but the message behind it: “We saw you, we honor you, you mattered tonight.”
That feeling stayed with me long after I left the stage. Today, when I design with roses, I still see them as more than flowers. They’re a language of recognition, devotion, and care.
Just as that single rose on stage communicated volumes without words, I learned that roses in arrangements carry the same power to convey what we struggle to say out loud.
This guide is my invitation to you: to learn how each rose color and number carries its own message, so you can let your flowers speak on your behalf.
TL;DR
Roses are more than beautiful blooms. They are timeless messengers of love, friendship, and remembrance.
- Red roses speak of passion and devotion.
- White roses honor purity, new beginnings, and sympathy.
- Yellow roses celebrate friendship and joy.
- Pink roses convey gratitude and admiration.
- The number matters too: from one rose (love at first sight) to 108 (a proposal), every stem counts.
- Naples Tip: In our warm, coastal climate, we recommend climate-smart roses or pairings with tropical flowers to keep arrangements vibrant.
Key to success: Thoughtful personalization transforms roses from a gift into a lasting memory.
The Universal Language of Roses
Across cultures and centuries, roses have symbolized love, sacrifice, beauty, and life’s fleeting moments. Choosing roses is more than a transaction, it is an act of communication. Each color, each stem count, and each arrangement tells a story. At Grace & Blooms, we see ourselves as translators of this floral language, helping you choose not only what looks exquisite, but what speaks directly to the heart.
For additional perspective on how flowers carry meaning across occasions, explore our guide to the most popular birthday flowers.
Every color tells a story. Discover the perfect composition to share yours in our curated rose collection.
A Painter’s Palette of Emotion: The Meaning of Rose Colors
The Classic Reds: Love and Devotion
Red roses are the timeless symbol of deep, romantic love. Their richness makes them staples for anniversaries and Valentine’s Day. For something even more distinctive, burgundy roses speak of unwavering devotion and eternal commitment.
The Elegance of White: Purity and Remembrance
White roses honor innocence and loyalty. They are a cherished choice for weddings, symbolizing new beginnings, but they are also deeply appropriate for moments of remembrance. When words feel too small, white roses become a quiet message of comfort.
Pink Roses: Gratitude and Grace
Soft pink roses express sweetness and admiration, while deeper shades of pink convey heartfelt appreciation. They are perfect for thank-yous, Mother’s Day, or simply letting someone know they are treasured.
Yellow Roses: Joy and Friendship
Once linked to jealousy, yellow roses now shine as the emblem of platonic affection and joy. They brighten birthdays and friendship celebrations with their sunny warmth.
Orange and Coral: Enthusiasm and Pride
Vibrant orange roses symbolize energy, fascination, and pride in someone’s accomplishments. Ideal for celebrating new achievements or the excitement of a budding romance.

Purple and Lavender: Enchantment
Lavender roses whisper “love at first sight,” while deeper purples carry regal undertones of majesty and admiration. They bring a magical touch to both new crushes and long-term partnerships.
Blue, Green, and Black: The Unconventional Choices
- Blue roses (dyed) symbolize mystery and the unattainable, perfect for someone truly unique.
- Green roses represent growth and harmony, making them thoughtful for milestones and new beginnings.
- Black roses, often deep crimson in appearance, symbolize transition, closure, and rebirth. They carry a dramatic, elegant presence.
The Message in the Numbers
Beyond color, the number of roses conveys its own meaning:
Number of Roses | Symbolic Meaning |
---|---|
1 | Love at first sight; you are the one |
12 | Be mine (classic dozen) |
13 | Forever friends or a secret admirer |
24 | You're always on my mind (24 hours a day) |
50 | Unconditional love |
100 | Complete devotion, a lifetime of love |
108 | The question: "Will you marry me?" |
For those grand, breathtaking gestures, “100 Roses” has become one of the most sought-after symbols of eternal devotion. It is a message that cannot be overlooked.
Speaking “Rose” in Southwest Florida
Here in SWFL, roses take on new life within our coastal lifestyle. Our subtropical climate calls for thoughtful pairing. Sometimes with orchids or other tropical flowers to ensure arrangements remain radiant despite our heat and humidity.
- Romantic Milestones: Picture a proposal on the Vanderbilt Beach at sunset. A bouquet of 108 lavender roses is more than flowers. It is a story told in petals against the Gulf horizon.
- Everyday Luxury: For a resident of Port Royal, fifty pristine white roses might be the most fitting tribute to a love that has endured decades with elegance.
- Friendship and Community: Celebrating a birthday brunch on 5th Avenue? Bright yellow roses echo the joy of the occasion and the sunny spirit of Naples itself.
- A Life on the Water: To thank a friend after a day boating from Royal Harbor, salmon roses express gratitude with warmth and vibrancy.
A Rose for Every Occasion: From Celebration to Solace
Weddings in Paradise
Naples brides often look to roses for their timeless elegance. White roses symbolize purity and hope, while coral or orange bring vibrancy to a sunset beach ceremony. Hardy varieties, like the climate-smart “Knock Out” rose, thrive in Florida’s warmth ensuring beauty from first look to final dance.
Anniversaries and Romantic Gestures
Deep burgundy roses are an exquisite way to honor a milestone anniversary dinner at the Ritz-Carlton or La Playa Beach Resort. Sometimes, it’s not just the color but the number: 10 roses for a tenth anniversary, or 36 to cherish the romantic moments shared.

Celebrating Friendships
Soft pink or cheerful yellow roses capture gratitude and joy. Whether it’s a Venetian Village shopping day or a Celebration Park gathering, these blooms carry the right message.
Expressions of Sympathy
In moments of loss, flowers are not decorations, they are messages of presence and compassion. White roses offer remembrance and peace, while soft pastels remind us of hope. Timing matters too: sending a bouquet a week after a service can be just as meaningful as the day itself.
More Than Flowers
Roses remind us that beauty can speak without words. Whether you are celebrating love, honoring a friend, or sending a message of comfort, they allow us to connect with each other in the most human of ways.
At Grace & Blooms, we see it as our privilege to help translate your feelings into florals that are more than arrangements. They are stories, blessings, and memories in bloom.
About the Author
Emily Limas is the founder and lead designer at Grace & Blooms, a luxury floral studio serving Naples, Florida. A former actress, she brings a storyteller’s eye to every composition—designing arrangements that honor life’s milestones with intention and meaning. Emily leads the studio’s creative vision, partnering with a seasoned design team and trusted growers to curate premium blooms and an elevated client experience. Learn more about her story and the Grace & Blooms mission here.
Designer's Notebook
What do 12 red roses mean?
A dozen red roses is the timeless declaration of “Be mine.” It remains one of the most enduring ways to express romantic love. You can share this timeless message with our classic dozen red rose arrangement.
What’s the best rose color for a new relationship?
Coral or salmon roses are wonderful early on—they carry excitement and admiration without the intensity of deep red.
Is it appropriate to send white roses for sympathy?
Yes. White roses are one of the most traditional and heartfelt choices, offering remembrance and peace in times of loss.
What does 108 roses mean?
This is a grand, romantic gesture: a traditional way to ask, “Will you marry me?”
Which roses symbolize friendship?
Yellow roses are the emblem of friendship, joy, and platonic affection.
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